Love does not rejoice in wrongdoing. In the last few posts we have looked at the wrongdoing of ourselves but now we need to turn to the wrongdoing of others and our reaction to it. It may be a surprise that people would rejoice in the wrongdoing of others but there are times when that happens. Two specific examples come to mind from the Scriptures.
Being tolerant of another’s sins.
In First Corinthians chapter 5, there was a brother in the church living with his father’s wife. The church, knowing this, did not take any action to stop him. It seems that they were tolerating his immoral behavior and, if I read it correctly, happy to be so tolerant of behavior that Paul says “even the Gentiles” don’t put up with!
Of course, we should remember that the intolerance of another person’s sins is more pronounced when the person is supposed to be (claims to be) a Christian. We do not expect, nor do we insist on righteous behavior from those who want to live in the world.
This may seem to be hard to accept but the Gospel spells our the message and only those who are willing to receive it place themselves under the rules and commands of Jesus. I do not expect godly behavior from the world but we should expect it from those in the church.
Rejoicing when the righteous do wrong.
While we should not accept the sins of other Christians and be tolerant of them, neither should we rejoice when another follower of God stumbles into sin.
And Noah began to be a farmer, and he planted a vineyard. Then he drank of the wine and was drunk, and became uncovered in his tent. And Ham, the father of Canaan, saw the nakedness of his father, and told his two brothers outside. But Shem and Japheth took a garment, laid it on both their shoulders, and went backward and covered the nakedness of their father. Their faces were turned away, and they did not see their father’s nakedness. (Gen 9:20-23 NKJV)
When Noah’s son, Ham, saw that his father had gotten drunk, he delighted in that. Many interpretations exist but they center in the fact that Ham was only to happy to rejoice in his father’s sin. “The mighty preacher of righteousness has stumbled and fallen!” Both First Corinthians and James deal with the ambition of those who would only be too happy to have a rival fall into some sin.
Do you rejoice in unrighteousness?
The sad fact seems to be that we do not even recognize those times we rejoice in unrighteousness. Television and movies bring to our attention all sorts of scenes and scenarios that no Christian should be watching. It is not enough to say “but that is real life”, the fact is that T.V. and now even commercials are showing us images that do not even cause us to blush! We justify it in many ways, but I will suggest that if we enjoy and look forward to shows which have non married couples living together and root for the relationship of those who shouldn’t be dating, that we are, in fact, rejoicing in sin.
We need to take extra precaution to avoid some themes in our T.V. watching if we even choose to have a T.V.! Movies, even the seemingly innocent ones, bring in to our minds, via implication, language, and other means those things which can tempt Christians by piquing interest that otherwise would not be there.
Love does not rejoice in unrighteousness.
Question: Let us learn from others: What are other ways the we rejoice in unrighteousness?
Love does not rejoice in wrongdoings of others and should not rejoice in it’s own wrongdoings either. Yet, it seems that we do find some who do rejoice (take pleasure in) in the things that they did/do/will do which are wrong.
Peter tells us that the past life is to be forgotten and left behind:
Since therefore Christ suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves with the same way of thinking, for whoever has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live for the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for human passions but for the will of God. For the time that is past suffices for doing what the Gentiles want to do, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, and lawless idolatry. (1Pe 4:1-3 ESV)
Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you. (Jas 4:8-10 ESV)
And they rose up early the next day and offered burnt offerings and brought peace offerings. And the people sat down to eat and drink and rose up to play. And the LORD said to Moses, “Go down, for your people, whom you brought up out of the land of Egypt, have corrupted themselves. (Exo 32:6-7 ESV)
Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit”– James 4:13ffMy son, if sinners entice you, do not consent. If they say, “Come with us, let us lie in wait for blood; let us ambush the innocent without reason; Proverbs 1:10-14Woe to those who devise wickedness and work evil on their beds! When the morning dawns, they perform it, because it is in the power of their hand. They covet fields and seize them, and houses, and take them away; they oppress a man and his house, a man and his inheritance. (Mic 2:1-2)
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Mat 5:28)